Now before we all start yelling, “Hypocrite”, hear me out!
Your dreams, your goals, your aspirations … no. Fight until it is honestly just not feasible to anymore. I will always stick to this since I’m in the midst of doing so myself. I’m referring to shitty situations.
- Bad relationships
- Shitty friendships
- Broken family bonds
- Business partnerships
This past weekend, well Friday, I reflected on something I was told last Sunday… by someone I most definitely thought I would never speak to. It really made sense:
“As much as I don’t like to believe in the good in people. I just remind myself that I’m taking a chance. A chance on someone. And this means I have to start preparing for the worst. So when good comes, I’m always so grateful. So damn grateful. Whatever the situation is and I feel there’s a possibility that the outcome might be disappointing, I just remind and credit myself for taking a chance. For being valorous.”
I hate failed friendships, I honestly do. There are some that I can accept that we just grew apart, and then there are others that if they just changed their ways a tad bit… we would’ve been fine. But it’s time I gave up on some, even some of the newer connections I have made. I said this last year, and implemented it a bit… I questioned it a few weeks ago, but now I’m honestly ready to take the leap, and understand that I made the effort… and be okay with giving up. I did what I had to and that’s all I could do.
There’s no time for wasted efforts… there’s no time at all.