Pick Your Battles Wisely


“Choose your battles wisely. After all, life isn't measured by how many times you stood up to fight. It's not winning battles that makes you happy, but it's how many times you turned away and chose to look into a better direction. Life is too short to spend it on warring. Fight only the most, most, most important ones, let the rest go.” - C. Joybell C T he first time I heard this phrase was last year after a pretty heated argument I had with a friend. I heard it again, when mediating a sit … [Read more...]

People Accept The Love They Think They Deserve


I think the first time I heard this quote was in the beginning of last year. I had just watched “The Perks of Being a Wallflower,” and with everything I was experiencing I was feeling  like an emotional fuck on the plane. I had just left the mini life break I had needed with family in London, and I was heading back to deal with the bullshit I so badly wanted to escape. My apartment was under new management, and we had a recent break-in in the building, not to mention no heat or hot water (which … [Read more...]

Dear Phenomenal Yetti


Everyone needs a little reminder sometimes. A reminder that they're awesome, that things are just fine, and a big pat on the back. Being the type of person you are, you sometimes need to know that you are appreciated, that you're loved, and that you're cared for. So I'm going to do it for you, just like old times. You ready? You, my dear beautiful friend, have been kicking ass lately. You've been productive, you've been focused, you've been determined, but most importantly you've embraced … [Read more...]