The Women Respond To Men Say: A Woman’s Role


A few months ago I asked the men of the "Men Say" Post Series to weigh in on the topic of a woman's role. Today, the women respond. Check it out! [Tweet "I believe in gender roles. Women nurture while men provide and protect. - Yani"] Define what you think a woman’s role is within a relationship? Do you identify with any of the men? If so which one? Vanessa: Personally, I really don't care to have defining roles in my relationship. Growing up I watched my mom cook the BEST meals and … [Read more...]

Men Say: Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby!


I guess this would fall under the part of my bio where I stated that I'd be providing the uncensored truth. This round of questions are all about sex (Sorry Mummy and Mama Ellen!). You asked, they answered. This post is a little long so grab a cup of tea or a glass of wine  and check out what the men had to say about certain hot topics of the average twenty-something-yr-old's sex life! Quick Tidbits: You’re casually dating multiple women. Condoms or no condoms? Anwar: Safety First. … [Read more...]

The Women Respond to Men Say: Love


Follow my blog with Bloglovin And we’re back! But this time we’re discussing LOVE! Check out what these ladies have to say about this post. Whose answer do you identify with the most? Eric, Wale, Greg or Shimmy? Do you believe a woman loves differently from a man? Vanessa: In this instance, I would have to agree with Shimmy. In my opinion, I feel like it honestly just depends on the person and also, the dynamic of the relationship but whether you're a man or a woman when it's all said … [Read more...]

HYGHPB: Positive Thinking


So you decided to choose happiness? Great, welcome to the club! Now in order to help you stick to your decision, I've decided to share a few tips that helped me find a positive space. Nothing works unless you're determined and you practice, practice, practice. You're essentially reprogramming the way you think and the way you live your life, so be patient with yourself and the process. After all, it did take a few years for you to develop the habits you're now looking to change. Ready? The … [Read more...]

Meet Phenomenal Akudo

Phenomenal Akudo of She's Gotta Write It

Hi, my name is Phenomenal Akudo and I sometimes I write about my life at From 9-to-5 I work as a media planner based in Chicago. My goal in life right now is to be Rihanna. So let’s get to the nitty gritty! Describe your self-esteem level. Are you a Beyonce Flawless 10? Are you struggling with your worth? Or are you a little in-between? Most days I am on Beyonce’s  *** Flawless level. In her video series [linked here] she kind of describes *** Flawless as a state in which … [Read more...]

Meet Phenomenal Tyece

Phenomenal Tyece of Twenties Unscripted

Hi, my name is Phenomenal Tyece and I am ranting, roaring and writing my way through life on my blog Twenties Unscripted. So let’s get to the nitty gritty! Describe your self-esteem level. Are you a Beyonce Flawless 10? Are you struggling with your worth? Or are you a little in-between? Because I am every woman (cue Chaka Khan), my estrogen levels play an integral role in my self-esteem. Most days, it’s great. Or at least decent. Or at least I think it’s decent. But, if it’s that 5-7 days of … [Read more...]